Kay Elizabeth Fry Catalano, 66, passed away on Monday, June 29, 2026. She was born on September 4, 1959, in Greensburg, Indiana, to Carl T. Fry and Charlotte L. (House) Fry.
At an early age, Kay moved with her family to Aurora, where they established what would become the family farm on Laughery Creek. The farm remained Kay’s greatest joy throughout her life. She loved every aspect of farm life, but especially the animals. She raised a pet cow from birth that she lovingly named “Alfie.” Over the years, she also had many beloved dogs, though her very first, “Gilda,” always held a special place in her heart.
Kay also enjoyed reading and a variety of crafts, especially stained glass. She was a devoted Cincinnati Bengals fan from the team’s inaugural season in 1968. As a longtime season ticket holder, she rarely missed a game. As an adult, Kay built not one, but two homes on the family farm, where she lived until about a year before her passing. Although she later moved away from the farm, it always remained the place she considered home.
Kay attended St. Mary’s School and graduated from Aurora High School in 1977. She later attended cosmetology school, graduating in 1980, and enjoyed a rewarding career as a hairdresser. She spent many years working for Pam and Shelby Cummins, who became lifelong friends. Later, when the Dearborn County Juvenile Detention Center opened, Kay began working there as a Youth Attendant. She found great satisfaction in making a positive difference in the lives of the young people she served.
In December 2000, Kay suffered a devastating brain aneurysm and spent nearly a month in intensive care. True to her determined spirit, she not only survived but thrived. Although she was unable to return to work, she embraced life with resilience and gratitude, finding joy in spending time with her dogs, friends, cousins, and other family members.
Kay is survived by her husband, John Catalano; her sister, Karla Fry Schmeltzer and husband Jerry; her nephew, Kelly Gregory; her niece, Krista Cook and husband Ron; and her two great-nieces, Ivy Spencer and husband Ryan, and Katey Cook. She was preceded in death by her parents, Carl T. and Charlotte L. Fry; her sister, Karen L. Gregory; and her nephew’s wife, Ladonna Gregory.
Kay will be remembered for her love of the family farm, her compassionate heart, her unwavering determination, and the loyalty she showed to the people, animals, and places she loved.
Although, there will be no services, if you wish to honor Kay’s memory you are invited to make a donation to the charity of your choice.